The Jezebel Spirit is not about the 2-inch splits, makeup, or garments you wear as we were told by older church folk back in the day. It is a gaslighting spirit of control, using anything and anyone, including spiritual practices and rituals itself to further its agenda. Listen in to this podcast episode as I discuss its plan, purpose, and behaviors.
Be blessed!!!
It’s confusing. It’s mind blowing. It’s validating and normal. And yet you can’t figure him or her out. Is it you or is it them? Listen in as we dissect the truth about covert narcissists. Be blessed! #love #relationship #narcissist
It’s amazing what happens once the seed of deception sets in. What’s even more mind-blowing is when we are vulnerable, we end up disobeying God, calling it sacrifice, and opening ourselves up to other spirits running 🏃🏿♀️ amok. Listen 🎧 in !!! #katinahorton #propheticword #toxicrelationships
Transitions are a part of life. Transitions are also major parts of a transitionally-supplied soul-tied toxic relationship with a narcissist. #love #relationships #freedom #transitions
When physical bombs are dropped, there are no warnings. The same thing exists when the narcissist drops the bomb on you. #bomb #lovebomb #narcissism #narcissist #relationships #love #freedom
Everywhere you turn, there is pestilence in the land. The pestilence that I speak of is the one that started way back in the garden of Eden. It’s called #narcissism. It’s infecting our homes, schools, workplaces, and churches. When the infection shows up in the Body of Christ, we are often bamboozled. Why? It doesn’t look the way we thought it would. Therefore, we ignore it. Or even worse, we play with it, telling it to have a seat at our table as it steals, kills, and destroys every area of our power, SOUL, and identity. #love #loveandfreedom #narcissist #toxicrelationships #toxicchurch
Do you know what gaslighting is? Have you ever experienced gaslighting yourself? Did you know that there is more than one kind of gaslighting? Yes, I know. It sounds like a lot. And it is. But with the help of God’s word, we will dissect the ins and outs of Freedomology, gaslighting, and how to heal and get your life back. #gaslighting #Katinahorton #toxicrelationships #youareenough
When it comes to the behavior of a person with a spirit of narcissism, it feels easier to place the blame on them for every single thing that happens in life. However, there is a part that everyone else plays in the theater production. Triangulation is one of them. Listen in to see where you are taking the bait and exacerbating the problem, and or being a party to abuse by proxy. #narcissist #toxicrelationships #triangulation
No one wants to seem like the bad guy. At the same time, either we armor up and do what’s necessary to love, respect, honor, be loyal to, and have dignity for ourselves, or we sign up for allowing people to break through every gate and door so they can steal, kill, and destroy our joy, identity, calling, and the mission. #boundaries #narcissism #freedom #loveandfreedom
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Why won’t you set boundaries? This is a question that someone may have asked you recently.
The answer is not a one size fit all. One reason may be fear of being alone and rejected. Another reason may be lack of housing.
A spirit of unworthiness can also be the culprit.
When you possess a spirit of unworthiness, you have a belief system of not being worthy enough. Thus, if you believe you are unworthy, you will not value your time, body, and soul.
And as a domino effect, when we don’t value our time, body, and soul, other people won’t either. They will rip through our bodies and souls with trauma like nobody’s business. Why? Either they don’t care or don’t have the ability.
The people who don’t care are walking around hurting other people in order to hurt themselves. We mirror our feelings about ourselves onto others. They are the group of personality disordered and spirit of narcissism and narcissistic tendencies group.
This group have wounds that are drowning in shame and insecurities around their childhoods and everything involved in their upbringing.
The people who don’t have the ability also walk around hurting other people. The difference is that it’s unintentional due to emotional immaturity, limiting beliefs, limited worldview, resources, skills, lies they believe about themselves and others, false concepts about love, etc.
We can’t make either group have a come to Jesus because love involves freedom. The moment that we X out freedom, we have control. And we can barely make ourselves do what we need to do.
This group also needs healing by going back to their family’s love story garden, dismantling the lies and limiting beliefs that led to the limited worldviews/strongholds.
When we stop being curious about God’s character, and then ourselves, we stop being curious about others. This leads to the inability group doing whatever they need to do to unknowingly make sure they never release the stronghold through confirmation bias.
We are responsible for giving ourselves what we need.
Although it doesn’t feel or seem right, it’s nobody else’s responsibility to understand and give us what we need.
God loves us, enabling us to love ourselves, and spread this love over to others. Taking responsibility for our own needs and issues is part of loving others.
Until next time,
Katina