You’ve been burning the midnight oil working on combining two math equations for your Freedomology class.  

Solve: Y=(P+C)-(L+F)=A 


Y=Power and control-love and freedom=abuse 


No matter what answer you’ve come up with, the result is the same:  narcissistic men.   

This couldn’t be right.  But it is.  

With all the figuring, inverting, and manipulation of numbers, and variables, you’ve forgotten the common denominator: you.

The more you work on combining these equations, the more confused, hopeless, and defeated you become.  

You have finally figured it out.  These are two equations that can’t be combined.  Why?

The variables involved are functioning on two different operating systems, and neither one of them are lining up with God’s(L+F) or love+freedom.

One variable is your man. And the other variable is you.

If you fail to understand this dynamic, you will have to retake the class. Unfortunately, you have already enrolled five times.   You don’t have to keep wasting your money on this class, and still not grasping the concepts that THE TEACHER has set forth for you in the Garden of Eden. You can reclaim your power, soul, and identity so you will know you are enough and enjoy an abundant life.

SOUL TIES: Self-Love Opens Up Lives To Intimacy Eternally with the Savior.

 When we do things HIS WAY: Healing Identity Self-worth With Affirmations And Yielding. 



 OUR WAY yields to pain without the healing process.


Return to the garden of Eden. Your family’s love story garden needs pruning. Get off the hamster wheel of soul-tied toxic relationships, and sign up for Freedomology: Reclaiming You. FREEDOMOLOGY, is a methodology that incorporates the VG5 Framework of Core Concepts combined with the VG5 Framework of Core Concepts for Relationships to release freedom and abundance.

Here’s how this solution works for you.

In Freedomology, you identify the sources of your control. 

Then, you work on managing your need to control.


Once the control is managed, you use five core relationship concepts that were introduced during the creation process in the Garden of Eden: power, control, love, freedom, and abuse to troubleshoot your PC(soul), rebuild your PC(soul), and create new software(your mindset). 

Once you complete this 6-month program, you will not only be able to handle the one toxic relationship that you are in; you will possess the skills of empowerment and abundance to impact and resolve every relationship that you engage in on every level. 


Book a call now to start reclaiming your power, soul, and identity, and enjoying healthy, flourishing relationships that thrive.

Using Freedomology’s methodology, dive into the 3 R Method:

 Reveal, embrace, express and love your true, authentic self.

Reclaim your soul, power, identity, and purpose.

Release your hamster wheel striving and soul ties to man and replace them with soul ties to God.

I understand how hard it is to rebuild your life after divorce and trauma. Since 2014, I’ve been on my resilience journey. I finished raising my two kids on my own (I am so proud of the young people they have become). I am the author of ten books on the subjects of healing, identity, self-worth, trauma, divorce, rebuilding, and navigating toxic relationships.

I have a BS in Business Administration and Management and a Masters in Information Technology. While this may appear unrelated to healing and rebuilding, it’s not. The same approach to troubleshooting and building new PCs, are the same approaches that we use when it comes to troubleshooting and rebuilding our souls in life.

Here’s how to get started

1. Book a Toxic Relationship Recovery call.

2. Download your free toxic relationship guide.

3. Success!!

Ready to reclaim your power, SOUL, and identity?

Get your free guide to troubleshooting your toxic relationship!


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