I helped to moderate two discussions on Clubhouse. The topic of discussion for these meetings was: “Should I Stay or Should I Go?” Instead of being a supporter of people getting divorced, we helped them understand the pros and cons of staying and leaving, including how it affects your emotional, mental, physical, and spiritual well-being, and that of your children. We also discussed how God hates divorce. However, he also hates violence and people being in situations where they are cutting each other’s spirits apart as well. I was able to give a 10-minute testimonial of my emotionally abusive marriage, as well as the role I played in this dynamic.