6 WAYS THE NARCISSIST DROPPED THE BOMB ON YOU
When physical bombs are dropped, there are no warnings. The same thing exists when the narcissist drops the bomb on you. #bomb #lovebomb #narcissism #narcissist #relationships #love #freedom
LOVE BOMBED BY THE NARCISSIST-YOU HAVE TO ARMOR UP!
We armor up for arguments and everything else. Why don’t we armor up for battle when it comes to dealing with narcissistic people? #love #freedom #relationships
THE HOOVER MANEUVER-5 REASONS YOU GOT SUCKED BACK IN BY THE #narcissist
A vacuum cleaner sucks in excess, dirt, particles, etc. You are not dirt or a particle. So, the question that remains is, “How did you manage to get sucked back in by the #narcissist ?
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6 Reasons Why You Won’t Set Boundaries Part 2
When we don’t set boundaries, people get a three for one special of damaging our minds, wills, and emotions, and we become puppets for unclean spirits returning to our lives. #boundaries #value #worth #soul #love #narcissist
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Dealing With and Recovering From the DARVO METHOD
It seems easier said than done when it comes to dealing with people and relationships. However, when we know what to look for and how to react in those situations, our minds, bodies, souls, and spirits can be better prepared for attack, and remove ourselves accordingly. DARVO (denial, attack, reverse victim and offender) is no joke. It’s gaslighting on steroids.
If you are not prepared, it will leave you in a FOG of fear, obligation, and guilt. When we choose to use DARVO instead of pressing into the pain, DARVO becomes our default operating system for every point of communication that we have with other people. DARVO means you’re saying “I value darkness over light.” Listen in. #love #narcissist #freedom The Love ❤️ and Freedom Toxic Relationship Recovery Coach
It Is Finished-I Release Control
It is finished.
I am finished.
Looking for the perfect hairstyle.
Looking for the perfect clothing.
Looking for the perfect meals.
Looking for the perfect children.
Looking to be the perfect wife.
Looking to have the perfect home.
Looking to my partner as my god.
Have you ever truly said these three words?
When you say it is finished, you sign off to the fact that the striving is over. You will not try to control the outcome of the relationship. You will not beg your narcissistic partner to change. You will not try to fix him, control him, manipulate him a little bit in order to have the best version of him, be the best version of you, and have your needs met.
You will not beg for attention, love, affection, etc. You will not try to Build a Bear when it comes to your narcissistic partner. You will release control. You will allow God to be sovereign. You will be yourself and allow your partner to be himself.
It is finished.
Later, knowing that everything had now been finished, and so that Scripture would be fulfilled, Jesus said, “I am thirsty.” A jar of wine vinegar was there, so they soaked a sponge in it, put the sponge on a stalk of the hyssop plant, and lifted it to Jesus’ lips. When he had received the drink, Jesus said, “It is finished.” With that, he bowed his head and gave up his spirit.
John 19:28-30
7 Things Used By Covert Narcissists, Self-Righteous Narcissists, & Limited Worldview People to Block You From the Promised Land Part 2
People will do anything and everything to stop the work of God. Every tactic in the book will be used, including talking about your children and the people who you’ve been called to help, if possible. Nothing and no one is off limits. Listen in to find out what happened in scripture and how this plotting also correlates to what is and has happened to you. Either you will end up moving as God moves, or moving as the crowd moves, and miss out on your calling. #love #narcissist #dysfunctionalfamily
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The Dysfunctional Patterns of Behavior Dance
Family dysfunction is learned behavior that has both been introduced into our DNA and socially adapted by what we see. It’s just like the old, saying, “monkey see monkey do.”
When we are not cognizant and self aware of our own patterns and behaviors, then we definitely cannot be other aware when it comes to the patterns and behaviors of individuals whom we are in relationship with. As the saying goes, we become the average of the five people that we hang out with the most.
And because we all have some type of brokenness, testing the spirits, inspecting the fruit like we do when we are in the produce department, and understanding our unresolved trauma, undealt with Brokenness, and proclivities, help us in knowing how to navigate the same familiar spirits in other people.
This is basically how you got hooked up with a narcissistic partner in the first place. Think of a AA battery. There is a plus and minus charge on each side. Your brokenness and how you define understand love is matched up with those same familiar spirits in him times 100, and on a whole Nother level.
When you understand your cycles, and the concepts that you have developed around love, you break the patterns, heal, and walk in wholeness.
10 Ways You Know You’re in a One-Sided Romantic Relationship with a Narcissist
More babies. More babies. More loving. Not so. Anything that’s one-sided is not balanced. This includes relationships. Listen in to see where you fit.
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The Hoover Addiction Cycle Part 1
The narcissist wants to let you go. But then again, he doesn’t. Five things won’t let him. Let’s dive in. #toxicrelationships #loveandfreedom #katinahorton
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We so believe in the emotional, mental, spiritual, and physical well-being of every woman that we donate 100% of the proceeds of The Valley of Grace Shop to Valley of Grace Ministries.
Valley of Grace Ministries provides many services, including coaching for women, without the financial roadblocks.
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