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Where is Your Journey Taking You?

The Journey represents unresolved trauma, undealt with brokenness, wounds, disappointment, discontentment, disillusionment, despair, the LACK cycle of addictions, and the pit.  Your journey represents the 3 part anointing of God the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit on your uniquely designed destiny with your name on it.

Joseph took The Journey to elevation.

David’s 3 part anointing was called “your journey” to elevation.

Both are necessary.

Both are difficult.

Both require testing.

Both require investing.

How badly you want your journey will determine how well you tackle The Journey. 

When Do I Let Go

One of the hardest things to do is to get to the point of letting go of people, places, things, and ideas no longer serving us.

Two of the main culprits is history and value. You’ve known this friend since high school. Your parents went to school together. You joined the same sorority in college.

But does that mean that this person is the one who has been called to be in your future?

Some of the questions that you can ask yourself when it comes to deciding what needs letting go are the following:

Where am I now?

What are my values?

Where are they now?

What are their values?

What is the mission and vision of my calling?

Does this person, place, thing, or idea align with my values, vision, and mission?

After answering these questions, the truth is what will really often surprise you.

We sabotage our calling when our daily habits, routines, and relationships are incongruent with our mission and vision.

Healing after narcissistic abuse requires letting go of the people, places, things, and ideas/concepts that reinforce a slavery mindset and limited worldview.

Remember, slavery mindset means that you are in Energizer bunny mode 24/7. God solved this mindset and way of living by instituting Sabbath.

The more we open our minds to curiosity about people, places, things, and ideas, the more we can begin to eliminate the limited worldview stemming from our family’s love story garden, and reinforced by other people, places, things, and ideas along the way, and adopt God’s worldview, solely based on his abundance, sovereignty, and ownership of the world.

Until next time,

Katina

Communal Narcissists Bonus Episode

There is nothing communal about the communal narcissist. It’s only a guise. Listen in to this bonus episode to learn about how the communal narcissist gets away with his/her mess. Be blessed! #love #empath #narcissist #narcissism #toxicrelationships #narcissisticpersonalitydisorder

Communal Narcissists Bonus Episode

The Love and Freedom Toxic Relationship Recovery Coach

Our Mission, Vision, & Why  Our mission is to help women in toxic relationships regain clarity on love and freedom, release control, break soul-ties and unhealthy relationship patterns, build resilience and flourish, and reclaim their power, SOUL, and identity, so they will know they are enough.

Valley of Grace envisions millions of women owning their stories, provoking them to heal and walk in wholeness, operate in love and freedom, and empower and impact the lives of women in their homes, communities, and around the world.

We so believe in the emotional, mental, spiritual, and physical well-being of every woman that we donate 100% of the proceeds of The Valley of Grace Shop to Valley of Grace Ministries.

Valley of Grace Ministries provides many services, including coaching for women, without the financial roadblocks.

Author Bible Teacher Brand, Business, & Marketing Strategist Love & Freedom Toxic Relationship Recovery Coach Speaker Podcast Host Course Creator Dance Minister E-commerce Store Owner

1:1 Freedomology Reclaiming You 1 year Coaching Program

1:1 Freedomology Reclaim Your Calling 2 year Coaching Program

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4 Things Communal Narcissists Do To Keep Drama, Trauma, Chaos, & Confusion Going

Communal narcissists appear to be all about community. However, it’s a coverup for opportunity. Anybody and everybody will be used as pawns in their theater production. They are the directors of their own mind show. #toxicrelationships

4 Things Communal Narcissists Do To Keep Drama, Trauma, Chaos, and Confusion Going

The Love ❤️ and Freedom Toxic Relationship Recovery Coach

Our Mission, Vision, & Why  Our mission is to help women in toxic relationships regain clarity on love and freedom, release control, break soul-ties and unhealthy relationship patterns, build resilience and flourish, and reclaim their power, SOUL, and identity, so they will know they are enough.

Valley of Grace envisions millions of women owning their stories, provoking them to heal and walk in wholeness, operate in love and freedom, and empower and impact the lives of women in their homes, communities, and around the world.

We so believe in the emotional, mental, spiritual, and physical well-being of every woman that we donate 100% of the proceeds of The Valley of Grace Shop to Valley of Grace Ministries.

Valley of Grace Ministries provides many services, including coaching for women, without the financial roadblocks.

Author Bible Teacher Brand, Business, & Marketing Strategist Love & Freedom Toxic Relationship Recovery Coach Speaker Podcast Host Course Creator Dance Minister E-commerce Store Owner

1:1 Freedomology Reclaiming You 1 year Coaching Program

1:1 Freedomology Reclaim Your Calling 2 year Coaching Program

Leave Egypt Today!

Book a Love & Freedom Toxic Relationship Recovery Call

Purchase your Love & Freedom Toxic Relationship Recovery Clothing From  THE VALLEY OF SHOP Today!

https://thevalleyofgrace.shop

Purchase books that take you from biblical healing to wholeness, thriving, abundance and freedom!!! https://thevalleyofgrace.com or Amazon

Follow me on Twitter, Instagram, LinkedIn, Tiktok, Clubhouse, YouTube, Facebook:  @katinahortonvgm   Email me: katinahortonvgm@gmail.com   DONATIONS: CASHAPP:  $THORTON4792 VENMO:  @KATINA-HORTON PAYPAL:  THEVALLEYOFGRACE.COM

WANT TO PARTNER WITH VALLEY OF GRACE MINISTRIES IN MONTHLY SPONSORSHIPS?

YOU CAN SIGN UP ON URBAN SKYE’S WEBSITE AT:   HTTPS://URBANSKYE.GIVINGFUEL.COM/KATINA-HORTON BECOME A SPOTIFY MEMBER AND RECEIVE SPECIAL MEMBER COUPONS TO THE VALLEY OF GRACE SHOP, MONTHLY COACHING, AS WELL AS BONUS EPISODES ON TOXIC RELATIONSHIPS, BIBLICAL HEALING, AND WHOLENESS:

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You Choose to Become Friends With Control

When you choose to ignore the Sabbath, you choose to become friends with control.

Being in the driver seat of control means that God is not even riding shotgun. As a matter of fact, you have placed him somewhere in the trunk.

Why?

As humans we believe that our solutions are better than God’s. This disillusionment and tunnel vision focus leads to bondage. And in turn, this bondage leads to coming up with false concepts about God and his love for us.

Our addiction to being in the driver seat means that we value:

Toxicity over purification

Control over trust

Slavery our freedom

Harmful over beneficial

Why?

Because we focus on what we have a right to do. And Paul tackled this clearly:

1 Corinthians 6:12 NIV

“I have the right to do anything,” you say—but not everything is beneficial. “I have the right to do anything”—but I will not be mastered by anything.

It Is Finished-I Release Control

It is finished.

I am finished.

Looking for the perfect hairstyle.

Looking for the perfect clothing.

Looking for the perfect meals.

Looking for the perfect children.

Looking to be the perfect wife.

Looking to have the perfect home.

Looking to my partner as my god.

Have you ever truly said these three words?

When you say it is finished, you sign off to the fact that the striving is over. You will not try to control the outcome of the relationship. You will not beg your narcissistic partner to change. You will not try to fix him, control him, manipulate him a little bit in order to have the best version of him, be the best version of you, and have your needs met.

You will not beg for attention, love, affection, etc. You will not try to Build a Bear when it comes to your narcissistic partner. You will release control. You will allow God to be sovereign. You will be yourself and allow your partner to be himself.

It is finished.

Later, knowing that everything had now been finished, and so that Scripture would be fulfilled, Jesus said, “I am thirsty.”  A jar of wine vinegar was there, so they soaked a sponge in it, put the sponge on a stalk of the hyssop plant, and lifted it to Jesus’ lips. When he had received the drink, Jesus said, “It is finished.” With that, he bowed his head and gave up his spirit.

John 19:28-30

7 Things Used By Covert Narcissists, Self-Righteous Narcissists, & Limited Worldview People to Block You From the Promised Land Part 2

People will do anything and everything to stop the work of God. Every tactic in the book will be used, including talking about your children and the people who you’ve been called to help, if possible. Nothing and no one is off limits. Listen in to find out what happened in scripture and how this plotting also correlates to what is and has happened to you. Either you will end up moving as God moves, or moving as the crowd moves, and miss out on your calling. #love #narcissist #dysfunctionalfamily

7 Things Used By Covert Narcissists, Self-Righteous Narcissists, & Limited Worldview People to Block You From the Promised Land Part 2

The Love and Freedom Toxic Relationship Recovery Coach

Our Mission, Vision, & Why

Our mission is to help women in toxic relationships regain clarity on love and freedom, release control, break soul-ties and unhealthy relationship patterns, build resilience and flourish, and reclaim their power, SOUL, and identity, so they will know they are enough.

Valley of Grace envisions millions of women owning their stories, provoking them to heal and walk in wholeness, operate in love and freedom, and empower and impact the lives of women in their homes, communities, and around the world.

We so believe in the emotional, mental, spiritual, and physical well-being of every woman that we donate 100% of the proceeds of The Valley of Grace Shop to Valley of Grace Ministries.

Valley of Grace Ministries provides many services, including coaching for women, without the financial roadblocks.

Author Bible Teacher Brand, Business, & Marketing Strategist Love & Freedom Toxic Relationship Recovery Coach Speaker Podcast Host Course Creator Dance Minister E-commerce Store Owner

Coaching Options:

OPTION 1: 1:1 Freedomology’s R.Y.A.N.A. Reclaiming You After Narcissistic Abuse 1 year Coaching Program

OPTION 2: 1:1 Freedomology’s R.Y.C.A.N.A. Reclaim YOUR CALLING After Narcissistic Abuse 2 year Coaching Program

OPTION 3: Spotify Patreon Member: 4.5 year Monthly Coaching Program through Audio Episodes

OPTION 4: GROUP Freedomology’s R.Y.A.N.A. Reclaiming You After Narcissistic Abuse 1 year Coaching Program

OPTION 5: GROUP Freedomology’s R.Y.C.A.N.A. Reclaim YOUR CALLING After Narcissistic Abuse 2 year Coaching Program

Leave Egypt Today!

Book a Love & Freedom Toxic Relationship Recovery Call

Purchase your Love & Freedom Toxic Relationship Recovery Clothing From THE VALLEY OF SHOP Today!

https://thevalleyofgrace.shop

Purchase books that take you from biblical healing to wholeness, thriving, abundance and freedom!!! https://thevalleyofgrace.com or Amazon

Follow me on Twitter, Instagram, LinkedIn, Tiktok, Clubhouse, YouTube, Facebook: @katinahortonvgm

DONATIONS: CASHAPP: $THORTON4792 VENMO: @KATINA-HORTON PAYPAL: THEVALLEYOFGRACE.COM

WANT TO PARTNER WITH VALLEY OF GRACE MINISTRIES IN MONTHLY SPONSORSHIPS?

YOU NOW HAVE TWO OPTIONS:

OPTION 1: YOU CAN SIGN UP ON URBAN SKYE’S WEBSITE AT: HTTPS://URBANSKYE.GIVINGFUEL.COM/KATINA-HORTON

OPTION 2: BECOME A SPOTIFY PATREON MEMBER AND RECEIVE SPECIAL MEMBER MONTHLY COUPONS TO THE VALLEY OF GRACE SHOP DURING THE AUDIO EPISODES, AS WELL AS 3 BONUS EPISODES ON TOXIC RELATIONSHIPS PER MONTH, BIBLICAL HEALING, AND WHOLENESS, AND 1 COACHING SESSION PER MONTH ON R.Y.A.N.A. (RECLAIMING YOU AFTER NARCISSISTIC ABUSE). https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/katina-horton/subscribe #podcast #linkedin #marketing #business #love #coaching #brand #help #power #teacher #commerce #egypt #clothing #facebook

The Dysfunctional Patterns of Behavior Dance

Family dysfunction is learned behavior that has both been introduced into our DNA and socially adapted by what we see. It’s just like the old, saying, “monkey see monkey do.”

When we are not cognizant and self aware of our own patterns and behaviors, then we definitely cannot be other aware when it comes to the patterns and behaviors of individuals whom we are in relationship with. As the saying goes, we become the average of the five people that we hang out with the most.

And because we all have some type of brokenness, testing the spirits, inspecting the fruit like we do when we are in the produce department, and understanding our unresolved trauma, undealt with Brokenness, and proclivities, help us in knowing how to navigate the same familiar spirits in other people.

This is basically how you got hooked up with a narcissistic partner in the first place. Think of a AA battery. There is a plus and minus charge on each side. Your brokenness and how you define understand love is matched up with those same familiar spirits in him times 100, and on a whole Nother level.

When you understand your cycles, and the concepts that you have developed around love, you break the patterns, heal, and walk in wholeness.

When Does The Family Dysfunction, Lying, & Deceitful Behaviors Lead to Narcissism and Where Does It Stop

How far will you go in keeping the family’s love story garden of toxicity and deceit going? #love #narcissist #dysfunctionalfamily

When Does The Family Dysfunction, Lying, & Deceitful Behaviors Lead to Narcissism and Where Does It Stop

The Love ❤️ and Freedom Toxic Relationship Recovery Coach

Our Mission, Vision, & Why

Our mission is to help women in toxic relationships regain clarity on love and freedom, release control, break soul-ties and unhealthy relationship patterns, build resilience and flourish, and reclaim their power, SOUL, and identity, so they will know they are enough.

Valley of Grace envisions millions of women owning their stories, provoking them to heal and walk in wholeness, operate in love and freedom, and empower and impact the lives of women in their homes, communities, and around the world.

We so believe in the emotional, mental, spiritual, and physical well-being of every woman that we donate 100% of the proceeds of The Valley of Grace Shop to Valley of Grace Ministries.

Valley of Grace Ministries provides many services, including coaching for women, without the financial roadblocks.

Author Bible Teacher Brand, Business, & Marketing Strategist Love & Freedom Toxic Relationship Recovery Coach Speaker Podcast Host Course Creator Dance Minister E-commerce Store Owner

Coaching Options:

OPTION 1: 1:1 Freedomology’s R.Y.A.N.A. Reclaiming You After Narcissistic Abuse 1 year Coaching Program

OPTION 2: 1:1 Freedomology’s R.Y.C.A.N.A. Reclaim YOUR CALLING After Narcissistic Abuse 2 year Coaching Program

OPTION 3: Spotify Patreon Member: 4.5 year Monthly Coaching Program through Audio Episodes

OPTION 4: GROUP Freedomology’s R.Y.A.N.A. Reclaiming You After Narcissistic Abuse 1 year Coaching Program

OPTION 5: GROUP Freedomology’s R.Y.C.A.N.A. Reclaim YOUR CALLING After Narcissistic Abuse 2 year Coaching Program

Leave Egypt Today!

Book a Love & Freedom Toxic Relationship Recovery Call

Home

Purchase your Love & Freedom Toxic Relationship Recovery Clothing From THE VALLEY OF SHOP Today!

https://thevalleyofgrace.shop

Purchase books that take you from biblical healing to wholeness, thriving, abundance and freedom!!! https://thevalleyofgrace.com or Amazon

Follow me on Twitter, Instagram, LinkedIn, Tiktok, Clubhouse, YouTube, Facebook: @katinahortonvgm

DONATIONS: CASHAPP: $THORTON4792 VENMO: @KATINA-HORTON PAYPAL: THEVALLEYOFGRACE.COM

WANT TO PARTNER WITH VALLEY OF GRACE MINISTRIES IN MONTHLY SPONSORSHIPS?

YOU NOW HAVE TWO OPTIONS:

OPTION 1: YOU CAN SIGN UP ON URBAN SKYE’S WEBSITE AT: HTTPS://URBANSKYE.GIVINGFUEL.COM/KATINA-HORTON

OPTION 2: BECOME A SPOTIFY PATREON MEMBER AND RECEIVE SPECIAL MEMBER MONTHLY COUPONS TO THE VALLEY OF GRACE SHOP DURING THE AUDIO EPISODES, AS WELL AS 3 BONUS EPISODES ON TOXIC RELATIONSHIPS PER MONTH, BIBLICAL HEALING, AND WHOLENESS, AND 1 COACHING SESSION PER MONTH ON R.Y.A.N.A. (RECLAIMING YOU AFTER NARCISSISTIC ABUSE). https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/katina-horton/subscribe #podcast #linkedin #marketing #business #love #coaching #brand #help #power #teacher #commerce #egypt #clothing #facebook

Beware of the Covert Narcissist

When you have a cover, you keep all the mess that’s going on underneath it. Listen in.

Beware of the Covert Narcissist

The Love ❤️ and Freedom Toxic Relationship Recovery Coach

Our Mission, Vision, & Why

Our mission is to help women in toxic relationships regain clarity on love and freedom, release control, break soul-ties and unhealthy relationship patterns, build resilience and flourish, and reclaim their power, SOUL, and identity, so they will know they are enough.

Valley of Grace envisions millions of women owning their stories, provoking them to heal and walk in wholeness, operate in love and freedom, and empower and impact the lives of women in their homes, communities, and around the world.

We so believe in the emotional, mental, spiritual, and physical well-being of every woman that we donate 100% of the proceeds of The Valley of Grace Shop to Valley of Grace Ministries.

Valley of Grace Ministries provides many services, including coaching for women, without the financial roadblocks.

Author Bible Teacher Brand, Business, & Marketing Strategist Love & Freedom Toxic Relationship Recovery Coach Speaker Podcast Host Course Creator Dance Minister E-commerce Store Owner

Coaching Options:

OPTION 1: 1:1 Freedomology’s R.Y.A.N.A. Reclaiming You After Narcissistic Abuse 1 year Coaching Program

OPTION 2: 1:1 Freedomology’s R.Y.C.A.N.A. Reclaim YOUR CALLING After Narcissistic Abuse 2 year Coaching Program

OPTION 3: Spotify Patreon Member: 4.5 year Monthly Coaching Program through Audio Episodes

OPTION 4: GROUP Freedomology’s R.Y.A.N.A. Reclaiming You After Narcissistic Abuse 1 year Coaching Program

OPTION 5: GROUP Freedomology’s R.Y.C.A.N.A. Reclaim YOUR CALLING After Narcissistic Abuse 2 year Coaching Program

Leave Egypt Today!

Book a Love & Freedom Toxic Relationship Recovery Call

Home

Purchase your Love & Freedom Toxic Relationship Recovery Clothing From THE VALLEY OF SHOP Today!

https://thevalleyofgrace.shop

Purchase books that take you from biblical healing to wholeness, thriving, abundance and freedom!!! https://thevalleyofgrace.com or Amazon

Follow me on Twitter, Instagram, LinkedIn, Tiktok, Clubhouse, YouTube, Facebook: @katinahortonvgm

DONATIONS: CASHAPP: $THORTON4792 VENMO: @KATINA-HORTON PAYPAL: THEVALLEYOFGRACE.COM

WANT TO PARTNER WITH VALLEY OF GRACE MINISTRIES IN MONTHLY SPONSORSHIPS?

YOU NOW HAVE TWO OPTIONS:

OPTION 1: YOU CAN SIGN UP ON URBAN SKYE’S WEBSITE AT: HTTPS://URBANSKYE.GIVINGFUEL.COM/KATINA-HORTON

OPTION 2: BECOME A SPOTIFY PATREON MEMBER AND RECEIVE SPECIAL MEMBER MONTHLY COUPONS TO THE VALLEY OF GRACE SHOP DURING THE AUDIO EPISODES, AS WELL AS 3 BONUS EPISODES ON TOXIC RELATIONSHIPS PER MONTH, BIBLICAL HEALING, AND WHOLENESS, AND 1 COACHING SESSION PER MONTH ON R.Y.A.N.A. (RECLAIMING YOU AFTER NARCISSISTIC ABUSE). https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/katina-horton/subscribe #podcast #linkedin #marketing #business #love #coaching #brand #help #power #teacher #commerce #egypt #clothing #facebook