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Knowing the Fruit Without Judging It Part 1 #love #relationship #podcast

It’s tempting to go to the store, head to the produce section, pick up a fruit, and then start judging it by its appearance. But what’s wrong in this situation is that the appearance of the fruit speaks for itself.

There’s no need to judge it. And so it is with people. We often look at people, judge them, and make ourselves feel and look superior to them. The part we’re missing is that knowledge of the fruit(behavior, energy, dysfunctional patterns of behavior, attitudes, and disposition does not equal to judging it.

Once we see what it is we’re working with, we can decide whether or not we want this fruit in our basket of living. Listen in to part one of this message and be blessed.

THE DANGERS OF BEING IN THERAPY WITH TOXIC INDIVIDUDALS AND OTHER INDIVIUALS WITH UNRESOLVED TRAUMA

It seemed like a good idea at the time. You had no idea that going to therapy with a narcissist and or individual with emotional immaturity, arrested development, and compounded unresolved trauma was a bad idea. But now that you’re there in the therapist’s office, you’re going to find out. And the end result is not what you’d expect. #love #freedom #relationship

4 WAYS YOU KNOW YOU HAVE A BUSYBODY INSTEAD OF A HEALING BODY part 2

We often walk around looking like we have it all together. The problem is, we don’t. We look the part, but we don’t play the part. Instead of working on healing our bodies, we work on unintentionally destroying others through gossip, judgmentalism, criticism, and micromanaging their lives. Listen in. #love #freedom #relationships


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Be blessed.

Discover Your Inner Peace: A Guide for Introverts to Sustainable Self-Care

Hello family!!! Today I am featuring an article with quick tips from Guest Blogger and Wellness Advocate Dorothy Watson. Enjoy, and remember: You are already enough!!!!

Here is her bio:

Dorothy Watson grew up with a single mother who wasn’t properly diagnosed with bipolar disorder for over a decade. In her mother’s honor, she created Mental Wellness Center to support those who are working toward improving their mental health.

Embarking on a journey toward self-care, especially for introverts, requires a thoughtful approach that honors both the need for personal space and the essential practices for maintaining mental, emotional, and physical health. It’s about finding that perfect equilibrium where solitude becomes a source of strength, not isolation. By adopting a series of tailored strategies, you can transform your self-care routine into a sustainable, fulfilling part of your daily life, ensuring that your introverted nature is not just preserved but celebrated and nurtured.

Embrace the Power of Thankfulness

Dedicating time each day to reflect on the aspects of life you’re grateful for can significantly enhance your outlook. This practice of maintaining a gratitude journal encourages a shift in focus toward the positive, allowing you to recognize and appreciate the small victories and pleasures that daily life offers. This simple act of reflection fosters a sense of contentment and well-being, crucial for anyone, but especially for introverts who cherish deep, meaningful contemplation.

Discover Relaxation Practices

Exploring various relaxation techniques, such as meditation or yoga, can be incredibly beneficial. You can unwind and focus with meditation apps like Headspace and Calm. These practices offer a way to calm the mind, reduce stress, and achieve a state of inner peace. By incorporating these techniques into your daily routine, you create a sanctuary of tranquility, allowing you to face life’s challenges with a serene and centered approach.

Contemplate a Career Shift

If feelings of stress and overwhelm at work are all too familiar, it might be time to consider a career change. Embrace a fresh start and seize new career opportunities by exploring and applying to jobs that align with your skills and passions.

Unleash Your Creativity

Engaging in creative endeavors provides a unique form of expression that is both therapeutic and recharging. Whether it’s painting, writing, or any form of artistic pursuit, these activities serve as a conduit for your inner thoughts and feelings. This creative engagement is not only a way to unwind after a long day but also a means to explore and understand your emotions, providing a rewarding sense of accomplishment and personal satisfaction.

Achieve Social Harmony

The quest for a balanced social life is crucial for introverts, who need to carefully manage their energy. Striking the right balance between engaging with others and enjoying precious solitude is key. It’s important to listen to your own needs, recognizing when it’s time to step back and recharge alone. This equilibrium ensures that social interactions remain fulfilling rather than draining, enabling you to enjoy the best of both worlds.

Craft a Personal Oasis

Creating a space in your home dedicated to relaxation and rejuvenation can be a game-changer. This personal oasis is a safe haven where you can retreat, unwind, and recharge in comfort. By surrounding yourself with items that bring joy and tranquility, you transform this space into a sanctuary that supports your self-care journey.

Take a Digital Detox

Taking regular breaks from screens is essential to prevent eye strain and mental fatigue. Designating screen-free times can help you reconnect with the world around you, encouraging activities that nourish the soul and mind. This practice not only benefits your physical health but also opens up space for more meaningful engagement with your surroundings.

Cultivating a self-care plan that reflects your introverted nature is crucial for your well-being. Integrating practices that harmonize with your preference for solitude and introspection fosters a balanced and enriching life. Remember, self-care is imperative, not optional. With these strategies, including potentially seeking a new job that better suits your needs, you’re equipped to find inner peace and flourish in your uniquely quiet way.

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3 WAYS THAT DEALING WITH FRUIT IS LIKE DEALING WITH RELATIONSHIPS

We’ve all been to the produce department. There lies fruit of every color, shape, and size. Those fruit represent the behaviors that manifest themselves in our relationships. Will the core be rotten? Will the outside look appealing? Will you have to keep cutting away to get to the good part? Only you can answer those questions and more. Listen in. #love #freedom #relationship