You are sick and tired of going from one toxic relationship to the next. Trying to fix the other person isn’t working. If anything, it seems like the more you try to fix them, the further they are running.
You are burning the midnight oil trying to come up with a plan.
You know that if you could just figure out the magic formula, you would be on the right track. You might throw in a little manipulation, begging, and controlling need-be. You have determined that you are all in, putting everything on the line to make the relationship work with this individual.
Even if it means you are worn out in the process, it will be worth it. At least you will have your needs met. The irony of the situation is that the harder you work, the more hopeless, confused, frustrated, defeated, and lonelier you become. You are literally in a state of languishing. If God has promised to give you a life of abundance, this couldn’t be what it looks like.
Trying to fix/control/change your partner is going to bring resistance and immediate pushback. God created us out of love, and in that love, he gave us freedom. So, in essence, you are going against that person’s free will, and it turn, placing you and them in bondage.
Running after a person who is walking away from you emotionally, mentally, spiritually, and physically creates a toxic dance cycle. This is why your efforts to lasso them back in is not working.
First, address the root issues of your control. Then, everything else that needs to happen in order for you to be in a healthy relationship will fall into place.
In my VG5 Framework of Core Concepts Coaching Program, we identify the sources of your control. Then, we work on managing your need to control using the same methods that I use as a computer technician: ATIE-I: analyzing, troubleshooting, implementing, empowering, and impacting.
You wear a tie so you can make an impact.
Once the control is managed, we use the same ATIE-I method to troubleshoot your PC(soul), rebuild your PC(soul), and create new software(your mindset). Once you complete this 6-month program, you will not only be able to handle the one toxic relationship that you are in, you will possess the skills of empowerment and abundance to impact and resolve every relationship that you engage in on every level.
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